A tirade is when you call your mother a bitch? Oh crap. Note to self: Send mom flowers.

Actress and reality-show celeb Tori Spelling, furious with her estranged mom, Candy, for cutting her out of late father Aaron Spelling's multimillion-dollar will, now claims her mother is trying to get her disinvited from a planned Aaron Spelling tribute at the upcoming Emmy Awards.

At a weekend barbecue hosted by Tori and her second husband, actor Dean McDermott, the late television mogul's daughter went on a profanity-laced tirade against Candy Spelling, according to a Lowdown spy.

Tori bitterly claimed Candy was going to exclude her from the planned Aug. 27 tribute to her dad, who died in June.

"What a b—!" Tori was heard complaining to friends, referring to her mom. Over a meal of hot dogs at her West Hollywood home, she went on to describe how Candy wants to bar her from the Emmy Awards, says the spy.

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